Among the many successful phrases Sideshow Bob on The Simpsons there is that which concerns the is positive in view of the television: "... we could rediscover the lost art of conversation." This of course while Springfield threatened with a nuclear bomb to force them to agree to his request ° °
Picture vaguely related ° °
TV aside, I think the art in question is not lost ... it's just terribly difficult to make a good conversation, but in this case I want to focus on those anywhere. So let us just that "good conversation" does not mean the cultural stuff or rocket science, but simply an exchange in which one experiences a minimum of interest in what he is saying another.
Even in an era chock-full of communication systems all too often we witness climbing over the corpses of phrases and redone to try to reach a stunted conversation. It is partly also the fault of the false expectations created by the Internet to overcome distance, but in reality it is deathly hard to argue with people on a permanent basis with whom they are sharing something live in the daily or weekly. Probably one of the many reasons for the success of Facebook is the one statement that seems a bit skimpy 'equivalent to "beat a blow," except that it does not feel like idiots mortally only speak live with one of the liner.
Sure, there are hobbies and in this communication on the web has done wonders in bringing together people who would never find someone to share them in the vicinity. And here come a lot of false expectations because it is not at all certain that someone with whom you can talk about issues relating to hours of fandom is also a good friend. E 'possible but not immediate as some seem to think. Not by chance when they talk about a best friend instantly known by a week, this often ends up becoming the worst enemy over a month · °
Probably the fact of the above produces a good 20% (which is already a lot) of Internett drama that fills the various Blog · °
I do not have a great experience of meeting, so I will only consider the comics convention as the culmination of false expectations. What many fail to understand is that the jovial atmosphere and the impression of being well with all is not necessarily related to the event and these people are prepared to automatically become best friends behind layers on MSN for 365 days a year. It follows a few dozen days after the outburst observed in reality.
Returning to the main topic of the post, it's been a decade since I stopped looking for a "good conversation." I think it's something that just happens and trying to artificially create the conditions inevitably leads astray. The same applies to friendship.
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